What is Love?

Come on seriously what is love?  You can’t explain it very easily you just feel it. You decide that others love you in different ways and they feel the same or not about you.   What a mixed up bag of emotions.  Peoples capacity of love and to love are so different and so complex when in reality it should be the easiest thing in the world.

what is love?

What is Love?

what is love?
Embrace your inner child

Come on seriously what is love?  You can’t explain it very easily you just feel it. You decide that others love you in different ways and they feel the same or not about you.   What a mixed up bag of emotions.  Peoples capacity of love and to love are so different and so complex when in reality it should be the easiest thing in the world.

Love should be unconditional

You should never put conditions on it but we do- we all do.  For example, I will love you if you treat me in this way, I will love you if take me to work every morning.  You think to yourself, oh he will love me if I give him a blow job once a week, he will love me if I look like a page 3 model.  What the fuck are we doing to ourselves that is not love.  You are letting others judge you based on what exactly?    

Your first breath

what is love?
Baby Grandson, my daughter and me – proud Grandma

Love is unconditional.  We should never ever place conditions on it.  There is only one time in your life when you have ever been loved unconditionally and you have loved unconditionally and this is the day you were born.

You came into this world when no one knew you and you knew no one.  Your parents looked at you and loved you unconditionally right at that moment you were truly loved unconditionally and you as a baby loved your parents unconditionally.  It’s only as we start to grow and start to get judged by people that we start to change.  

We try to make others happy, or happier or make them feel like the best thing since sliced bread because you expect something in return for it… well don’t!.  You do it because you want to do it with no expectations.  Well, you know what they did start out as being the best thing since sliced bread because of there being no conditions expected or placed.

Other Peoples Opinions

And something else do you know what other people think of you is actually none of your damned business because for one they don’t know you and secondly that’s their personal thoughts, not yours.  I have spent so much of my life worrying about what other people think of me… what the fuck was I thinking?  I must have been off my rocker.  Who taught me to become that person?  While doing that I was denying myself life… a voice… to be part of creation.  I’ve wasted 48 years of trying to please people who either don’t care about me, don’t love me and don’t actually really know me.  What a waste of precious time.

The World Is Your Oyster

Who would I be right now if I had started off with the right mentality?  The world is my oyster and you know what it is yours too.  The person who is stopping that is yourself.  You can’t blame the person you live with, the habits you have formed.  Thoughts are actually real things and they create actions and reactions which create movement but it’s up to you which direction they take you.

Like Attracts Like

You think negatively you will attract negativity it’s as simple as that.   Imagine yourself as a magnet, and you want to attract positive things into your life the only way you are going to do that is by thinking about positive things.

My Life

I know I am not going to be spending the next 48 years worrying about what other people think of me.  If I want to have another tattoo I’m going to have another tattoo, if I want to dye my hair pink I shall do, I will wear what I want and because I feel good in it and that’s all that matters.    People will always judge regardless so fuck em.. do it anyway… please yourself… love yourself… be proud of who you are, the journey you’ve travelled, the things you’ve accomplished.  Life is so incredibly short.  What is love to you?

Do I Believe In God?

Someone asked me the other day if I believed in God.  Well, I don’t believe in the god that society expects us to believe in but I do believe there is something that is difficult to put into words.  We are all energy and energy does not and can not disappear it just turns into something else.  I believe this world is nothing but a series of lessons we have to learn before we graduate to the higher realm whatever or wherever that may be.  God is basically about creation, and we are here to create… to live and to experience.    We are spiritual beings in a human body having human experiences then we will go back to being a spiritual being on another higher plane.  

Pause

Wouldnt you want to look back on your life and have pride in what you have accomplished, and in the unconditional love and the help that you gave to others.    Again I mean what is love? Shouldn’t we just start trying to love people for who they are… don’t judge others; you don’t have that right… don’t put people down…. what gives you the right?    Every single one of you is unique… we are not sheep.. 

Shine

Shouldn’t we just start trying to love people for who they are… don’t judge others; you don’t have that right… don’t put people down…. what gives you the right?    Every single one of you is unique… we are not sheep..   You need to find that inner glow and let it shine.  We all need to shine.  So let’s shine together.

These are my beliefs and what my soul believes.  I think that was the journey I had to take to get to this point in my life, it had to take me 48 years to learn that lesson.    The next chapter is going to be a fulfilling one on a physical, emotional, practical, and spiritual level.  I have new friends to make, a partner in crime to find, laughter to fill my belly, new experiences, hobbies, adventures, new sensations, new everything.  

I am going to start my journey with a plan.  An actual physical plan where I picked up a pen and write down what I am going to do, where I am going and how I am going to get there.  I am also going to start meditating again followed by some stretching exercises.  You have to start with self-love as a wise person once said, you can not pour from an empty cup.  

Talking of wise people I want you to look up on Bob Proctor, and maybe read one of his books.  All about changing your mind set and attracting positive things into your life.  I don’t get any money for referring you to his site or anything I just think he is an amazing person to learn from.

So I can do it I’m sure you can too…

High five Wardy… 

Tracey xXx

 

 

Author: Tracey

Born in Leicester in the late 60's I moved to Harrogate in 1997 because of a man. The man in question is no longer part of the equation but I like this part of the country so I have made my base here. I have 3 children, 1 grandson, 1 dog, 2 cats and a car called Tallulah Love Rocket (don't ask)

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